by Debra Boulanger | Jul 12, 2018 | Dating, Divorce, LOVE, Relationships
You know the pattern… he’s charming, flattering and has all the right moves. But, soon…you start to spot the red flags. You notice when he talks, it’s all about him. Over time you notice that you only go to his favorite restaurants and hang out with his... 
by Debra Boulanger | May 23, 2018 | Dating, happiness, LOVE, Relationships
Last night I had the pleasure of hosting a group coaching session for about a dozen women in their 50’s and 60’s who are looking for love. They all wanted to know “why finding love is so hard over 50?” Whether widowed, divorced or never married, they all... 
by Debra Boulanger | Apr 18, 2018 | Dating, LOVE, Relationships, Self worth
As you travel this amazing journey of love and getting to know one another, there is a opening of your heart (if you are willing) to let more love, communication and understanding to flow between you. It takes months and even years to truly get to know someone. You... 
by Debra Boulanger | Apr 3, 2018 | Dating, LOVE
Single again and dating in your 40’s, 50’s or 60’s? If you are newly single and now find yourself dating over 40, over 50 or over 60, you might have already realized that dating in midlife poses unique challenges. As I started gathering my thoughts... 
by Debra Boulanger | Dec 6, 2017 | confidence, courage, Dating, Divorce, LOVE, Relationships, Self worth
“Self-sabotage is the way we regulate our Deserve Level to keep ourselves within our self-chosen – and surprisingly comfortable – boundaries.” – Pat Pearson Are you sabotaging your own chances at love? Everyone does it to one degree or another and... 
by Debra Boulanger | Nov 17, 2017 | confidence, Dating, Divorce, law of attraction, LOVE, Relationships
“Then I found out he was married.” Tears welled in her eyes. My heart sank in an instant. I was in one moment elated for her and in the next, felt that hole in her gut. She put her hands on her stomach. “I felt like someone shot me with a canon.” I could feel that... 
