by Debra Boulanger | Jul 12, 2018 | Dating, Divorce, LOVE, Relationships
You know the pattern… he’s charming, flattering and has all the right moves. But, soon…you start to spot the red flags. You notice when he talks, it’s all about him. Over time you notice that you only go to his favorite restaurants and hang out with his... 
by Debra Boulanger | Dec 6, 2017 | confidence, courage, Dating, Divorce, LOVE, Relationships, Self worth
“Self-sabotage is the way we regulate our Deserve Level to keep ourselves within our self-chosen – and surprisingly comfortable – boundaries.” – Pat Pearson Are you sabotaging your own chances at love? Everyone does it to one degree or another and... 
by Debra Boulanger | Nov 17, 2017 | confidence, Dating, Divorce, law of attraction, LOVE, Relationships
“Then I found out he was married.” Tears welled in her eyes. My heart sank in an instant. I was in one moment elated for her and in the next, felt that hole in her gut. She put her hands on her stomach. “I felt like someone shot me with a canon.” I could feel that... 
by Debra Boulanger | Aug 23, 2017 | Dating, Divorce, Love, LOVE, Relationships
Online dating for women over 50 can be a huge challenge. First, there’s generally a smaller pool of available men in your age range. Second, many of those older men are looking for newer models. Third, on almost every dating site, you are exposed to fake... 
by Debra Boulanger | Aug 17, 2017 | Dating, Divorce, LOVE, Relationships, Self worth
Looking for love in midlife isn’t easy. I remember well the days of “one and done” dates, being groped in a taxi by a short scorpio who looked nothing like his profile pic, and then dating a wonderful photographer who “couldn’t imagine being intimate with me.”... 
by Debra Boulanger | Apr 19, 2017 | Dating, Divorce, LOVE, Relationships, Uncategorized
It may seem silly that women over 40 would need a “how to” manual on how to date… But I get more and more emails and posts from women like you who are struggling with the mechanics of learning how to date again when you’re over 40. Let’s face it – things... 
