by Debra Boulanger | Jul 27, 2016 | Dating, Divorce, Love, LOVE, Relationships
I was having a session with my client, Barb, the other day. She’s 58 and getting back into the dating scene two years after her marriage ended. She’s already tried meeting someone the “natural way,” but with her work schedule and a teenager still at home, fix ups from... 
by Debra Boulanger | Jul 20, 2016 | confidence, courage, Dating, happiness, Love, LOVE
“Sometimes he will say yes. Sometimes he will argue. He often changes what he says, argues and then does something completely different from what he promised…” That’s my client, Mary, talking about her ex-husband. The divorce is getting closer. The... 
by Debra Boulanger | Apr 11, 2016 | happiness, limiting beliefs, Love, LOVE
It’s never too late for love. How I found my soulmate at 58. I’m high on love right now. And I never thought I could feel this way. I know it sounds cliché, but at 59 years old, I’ve done a lot of living — and a lot of loving. I’ve also made some pretty big mistakes.... 
by Debra Boulanger | Oct 6, 2015 | courage, LOVE, Relationships
“God breaks the heart again and again and again until it stays open.” – Hazrat Inayat Khan I had never felt heartbreak like this before. This morning, I woke up with a pit in my stomach – as if a canon had been shot through and left me with a gaping hole. What... 
by Debra Boulanger | Dec 4, 2014 | Divorce, happiness, LOVE, Self worth
“Oh, I’m lookin’ for my missin’ piece I’m lookin’ for my missin’ piece Hi-dee-ho, here I go lookin’ for my missin’ piece” ~ from “The Missing Piece” by Shel Silverstein I thought about that quote during a... 
by Debra Boulanger | Jul 17, 2014 | Divorce, Love, LOVE, Relationships, Self worth
Everyone wants love. Unconditional. Passionate. Honest. Easy. Real. You want that too, don’t you? I do. We ALL should have this. So, why don’t we? We are looking for love in all the wrong places. Many of my single friends are looking for the ideal partner. They search... 
